Learning Day Take 2

Aghhh ... so learning Day #2 did not work as well as I thought.  I will blame it on two things:

1.  Professional world was a spinning and Daddy's head was not as focused on Baby Doll as I should have been.
2.  Baby Doll is going through some Jersey Girl rebellion.  I feel this is necessary to get through, but it requires constant Daddy attention and usually a very sore behind for Baby Doll.  After Learning Day 2, Baby Doll continued to tell Daddy what to do.  One time she even Told Daddy she was going potty ... this was in public with friends, I corrected her immediately -- not even thinking about or noticing our friends (Baby Doll noticed though).

I found that it was time to continue Learning Day immediately.  I am off from Friday night through Monday.  Baby Doll will and is getting all the attention that she needs.  If Baby Doll needs another Learning Day for this topic, she will not enjoy -- it will be a very long day for her -- fair warning Baby Doll!!!

We had friends over Friday night for some cards.  I whispered into Baby Doll ear that once everyone is gone, Learning Day begins and she would be Diapered.  Baby Doll asked why?  Because I need to remind you that you are my Baby Doll.  You have been acting like a Big Girl lately and you need to remember that Daddy makes the decisions.

Finally after a few friends crashing and a much needed breakfast out, we were home and getting little one setup down stairs.  Once everything was set, I made Baby Doll shower to clean herself for Daddy -- this of course means a thorough shaving from the neck down.  Baby Doll asked me to get her clothing, but I did not think it necessary.  I waited by the fire and when Baby Doll was done she came in Naked a cold.  I smiled -- Daddy loves looking at this specimen of absolute beauty; and with her Daddy looking at her and the beginning of her punishment imminent, Daddy also love how vulnerable she looked.  I makes Daddy's heart melt --

anyways -- after a moment of soaking in all of Baby Doll I got up and went over to her and kiss her neck and shoulders.  Then I inspect her cleanliness.  I run my hands gently down from her hair, to her  check down the neck and across her wonderful breasts; I come up under her arms and run my hand for her rib cage up across her arm pits to her hand (which are now in the air) and back down again.  This makes sure that Baby Doll did not skip or forget to shave her arm pits.  From there I run my hand slowly down the out side of her hips, down her thighs and calves, always moving slowly, always looking for the stray stubble.  Once I reach the ankles, I come around the inside and bring my hand every slower and ever more thorough up Baby Doll's calves and into her thighs (now Baby Doll is soft -- like softest fine fleece available soft -- not kidding -- but the inside of her thighs -- OMG -- yeah -- that is the softest most delicate part of Baby Doll's skin).  Then Daddy inspects Baby's Doll's shaving around her Daddy's pussy, MY PUSSY!!!  I pull out all the skin and touch very delicately until I am satisfied.  Then the last part of my inspection is to make sure my pussy tastes as clean and fresh.  There is nothing Daddy enjoys to have in his mouth more that Baby Doll's shaven pussy.  I absolutely love it!!!  Baby Doll did an outstanding job and passed inspection.

After inspection, and we went to the bedroom and I put on Baby Doll's onesy and nightgown to warm her up; then I took Baby Doll's temperature to make sure she was able to have Daddy's punishment.  I don't think Baby Doll likes Daddy using the animal anal thermometer -- but oh well ... he he.  She had a slight temp, but Daddy decided to monitor her temp and continue on with the punishment.  Baby then went to Daddy's side of the bed and was instructed to lay over the pillows in the middle of the bed with her ass high.  Daddy grabbed his new 36" wooden paddle and slid it down her ass to between her legs and tapped them, signaling Baby Doll to spear her legs.  I gently rubbed the lips of Daddy's pussy, feeling them fill with moisture.  I gave her a few good slaps with my hand and explained to why she was getting spanked and if she (1) understood why, and (2) if she accepts the punishment she is about to receive.  Once she agreed to both, I gave her twenty quick slaps with the paddle dead center on her arse.  She squirmed around -- bad idea.

See my theory is that I will start out a punishment with a set amount in mind.  The determination of the severity depends a lot on how Baby Doll has behaved since she learned about the forthcoming punishment and how she behaves during the punishment.  The worse Baby Doll behaves or the worse Baby squirms during the punishment will (1) increase the intensity of the spankings and (2) increase the amount of spankings or other forms of punishments.

Sooo .... Baby Doll had built up a good amount due to it Being a Learning Day especially because we had to revisit this topic, the way she acted with company, and she had a hard time at first with the paddle and squirmed all over.

I love the way Baby Doll explains it on her blog, www.northvt.blogspot.com

Back to Baby Doll's punishment ... so I went over and calmed her down and then put some Ben Gay inside her arse -- not a very big dose, and not very deep -- just enough to light her off for a little.  Then she received a handful of paddles and we went back down stairs.

This morning, Baby Doll received one of the hardest spanking she Daddy has ever given her.  It started out with a warm up few hand slaps and then 30 with, the let call it "Big Wood" (36" wooden paddle) for now, 10 on each check and 10 dead center.  Is got Baby Doll all worked up.  I talked with her about how brave she is and why she was receiving the spankings.  Then I brought up the two times Baby Doll did not ask to go potty.  Baby Doll received 90 with the Paddle for that; 30 for each check -- then 30 for the center for how she acted at the restaurant.  This pushed Baby Doll very far,  she squirmed all over, but this never helps her, it makes it worse.  Once the punishment was over for the not asking to go potty,
Daddy again went over to calm Baby Doll Down letting her know what a good girl she is and the this is a Big Girl Punishment for acting like a Big Girl.  Once she had began to compose herself, Daddy told her her punishment was almost over -- this was upsetting to Baby Doll as she began to whimper again.  I reassured her and decided to give her a little longer break with the paddle.  I grabbed the lotion and rubbed a bunch into to her ass checks.  Baby Doll arse has been taking a lot of punishments and has become a little dry.  After Daddy rubbed in the lotion, I grabbed the Ben Gay and inserted in her rectum and spun my finger around.  This set her off again ... in a whole new way.  Then I grabbed the paddle and gave Baby Doll 100 quick, fast paddles dead center.  By the time this was over, Baby Doll was a mess -- Daddy pushed her farther than I have ever done.  I knew this and took extra attention to Baby Doll after the punishment.  I held and rocked her, told how much I love her and discussed by she was punished and why this Learning Day was important.

We are now relaxing before we head out to a very public event for many hours.  Baby Doll will be diapered, and not allowed to pee outside of her diaper.  She will be wear the adult pull-up type while out of the house.  I will also have the Ben Gay with Daddy.  She will be punished for any rules Baby Doll breaks.  I love Baby Doll... she is strong, smart, sexy, loving, and all mine.  I know baby doll is trying hard to fully obey her Daddy; this is a big lifestyle change.  These learning days are designed to help Baby Doll fully submit to her Daddy!!!

Learning Day #2

Well, Well,

Baby Doll has been feeling that Daddy has not been as attentive as Daddy should be ... and she is right.  Our worlds are spinning right now -- professional (keep fingers crossed) -- and my attention has been elsewhere.  For this, Baby Doll, I am sorry.

So ....

Baby Doll has been pushing her limits with this reprieve for her wonderful ass.   So we are embarking on our 2nd learning day.  Baby Doll has been pushing hard by telling Daddy what me or we are and are not going to do.  This can not happen ... Baby Doll gave me the final decisions on everything.  This is necessary so that there are no more arguments ... Daddy will make, stand by and take responsibility for all decisions.  Mind you, I search out Baby Doll's opinion in everything we do, her advise, knowledge and opinion are invaluable to me and the decisions I make.  So this learning day is about how Daddy is the decision maker how Baby Doll needs to learn not to Daddy what we are and are not going to do ... plus Daddy will get to try out my new spanking implement ...

36" Wooden Paddle -- Hardwood -- something you might see in an industrial kitchen -- hehe.  It arrived this week, and it has been left out in plain sight for Baby Doll to see.


So, Baby Doll is now learning.  Here is how she has learned so far:

We started with a lecture and a very firm spanking with my hand -- 20 sets!!!  This made her arse a crimson red ... it was so beautiful ... rivaling the best of sunsets.  mmm I love ever inch of Baby Doll .... mmmm!!!  When the spankings were over, I held Baby Doll close and let her know how much I love her, and how much Baby means to her Daddy.

Oh ... wait .. I also began to experiment more with the silent spanking aka ben gay inside the anus, so far it has been to much for Baby Doll in public or with friends.  My intent is to learn where her limit is to be able to have a silent spanking done ... say in the bathroom ... and rejoin a group of friends and be able to just compose herself.  So far this weekend, I have learned a lot.

Baby Doll has had an attitude lately, especially after punishments.  It is like she is still fighting Daddy.  So when that attitude bared it's head shortly after her opening punishment, needless to say Baby Doll was back up stairs and this time Daddy tested out his new paddle.  Because of the recent spanking, and that it was the first time Baby Doll would be spanked by anything like this, and by the fact that the anticipation of the past several days (remember the paddle had been hanging around the house!!!) she received 10 soft paddles.  This also allowed me to figure out how to best use the paddle ... it did not take long ;)

We have had several spankings thus far .. one immediate one was when Baby Doll finally admitted that she had lied to me last night.  I was pretty sure something was bothering her, and she would not tell me because she did not want to disappoint me.  Baby Doll told me this afternoon, and this immediately had her hands on the counter and night gown above the waist. Baby Doll can not ever lie to Daddy no matter what ... even though I was enjoying fucking my wife, I was taking a long time and I noticed she had stopped enjoying it.  Instead of letting Daddy know, she would have let Daddy go on ....  Baby Doll needs to remember my sole purpose in life is to love and protect her, and cherish her.  When she is not honest with me, that diminishes my ability to fulfill my purpose.

With one last lesson this evening, this learning day is a part one.  Baby Doll has a lot to learn.  Her Daddy has promised to teach her the way.  This will take Baby Doll a lot of work ... seeings how she is my Born and Bread Jersey Baby Doll.  I feel we did not fully learn the lesson of Daddy Makes All the Decisions and will revisit this lesson again soon.

Tonight we will finish in bedroom from cuddles to over my knee to back to cuddle and then some ... well ...  Oh , and let me tell all of you ... Baby Doll takes her punishment like a CHAMP!!!  I did bring Baby Doll pretty far with the paddle, but she takes it ... yes there are tears, and some times a little fight, but she is one tough girl, and Baby Doll makes her Daddy very Proud!!!

I belove you Baby Doll !!!

HoH

I love this new lifestyle ... I am crazy for Baby Doll ... ha we are no longer vanilla!!!

I take my new responsibilities extreamly seriously.  Daddy, the final decision maker, the protector,  the provider,  the one person that makes Baby Doll truley happy, the one person she has entrusted everthing too.  This is all I want to live for.  Unfortunately,  our in world we need to make money to survive ... so work takes my focus off Baby Doll ... and that is no good, especially when work is not going well. (working on plan to keep Baby Doll in my focus more ... fingers crossed).

I have been grumpy latley.  I hate being grumpy around Baby Doll.   That is not what she needs from me.  There are times I feel I have not filled these shoes ... there is a learning curve for this daddy ... mostly how to juggle these strong emotions to make the world perfect for Baby Doll with the reality that our world is not perfect.   It is hard for me to explain yet, but the best way is:

When Baby Doll is not smiling and generally not happy, I feel as though I have failed, I feel drained , I feel I need to find a fix for her now ... even if there is not a fix.

When Baby Doll is smiling and Bubbly,  I feel confident,  I feel energized,  I feel like nothing can stop Baby Doll and me.

I love you Baby Doll .... change is on the way  ... I promise .... then I will be able to punish you anytime!!!

Rules

Recently, my Baby Doll posted her rules.  Yep, I have rules ... bhahahaha; but seriously,  these rules are designed to help my Baby Doll respect her Daddy. Baby Doll is true NJ girl at heart and temperament.   This has been a challenge at times for Baby Doll to respect Daddy's newly given authority.

Have no misgivings,  my Baby Doll truly wants these rules, she wants to obey her Daddy, and expects to be punished when these rules are broken.  She understands that I am the judge of when rules are broken, I determine the proper punishment for the broken rule, and I execute the punish for the broken rule.

The 1st rule I set was:

Baby Doll must ask me to go potty.

Wow ... that seems controling?  Well, no.  It is designed to make her think about her Daddy and the commitment she gave to me.  It is also designed to humble my NJ girl Baby Doll with a touch of humiliation.  Baby Doll has received many, many reddened ass for not obeying this rule.

The 2nd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must be shaven below the neck.

To be honest, I am not sure where this rule came from, I never had a problem with hair on women ... it happens, especially in the winter.  But I have enjoyed this rule.  Baby Doll has the softest skin in the world, and I get to enjoy it all of forever!

The 3rd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must Respect Daddy at all times.

Well, this is the backbone of the lifestyle Baby Doll and I chosen.  Without respecting Daddy, everything falls apart.


The 4th rule I set was:

Baby Doll can never say No to Daddy.

To say the least,  this is an extremely tough rule for Baby Doll.  By all mean, this does not mean Baby Doll can't disagree with me, it just means she is not allowed to use the word No when she disagees with me.  I designed this rule to help Baby Doll learn to respect daddy.


Well, it is late.  Baby Doll fell asleep waiting for me to execute todays punishment for the rules she broke:

3 times no ask for potty
3 blatant disrespect for daddy
1 for not shaving
And a couple extra for not playing with her favorite toy.

With that list ... 16 set, here we come ... wakie, wakie!!!

The Best Gift My Baby Doll has Ever Given

Lets start out with a little history.  My Baby Doll, who just got on to the internet 3 years ago, and fights the advancement of technology, shows me a blog she started when I arrived at home!! Wow ... blog ... I have not even played much myself in the blogosphere.  What drove her to the internet:

Ten years ago, I had just started dating my wife, Baby Doll.  We have been married for about six years,  and have two great children.  Baby Doll is a beautiful,  sexy, smart and self confident woman.

Just after Thanksgiving,  we were watching a little tv;  all of a sudden, she leaned over to me and gives me the greatest gift I have ever received or will will ever receive.   She gave me herself.  What ... Baby Doll fully submitted to me;  and I knew what she meant immediately.   Also, immediately, I felt a great warmth of love, honor and responsibility flow over me.  It was awsome!!!

Ok, so what does this mean?

It means, I am in charge... yep Daddy; Head of Household ... in every aspect of life.  Final descisions on finacial matters, family matters, sex, everything.  I can set rules and expect her to listen and obey theses rules.  I can punish her when these rules are not followed.

Whoa whoa whoa ... I am punishing, with spankings, my Baby Doll.  Well, yes!!  Baby Doll and I have always had a strong sex life, we like to play and we like to play hard.  Our previous ten years together had led us to this point.  It was not a big leap for Baby Doll and me.  Now it is not play, it is part of our life, our lifestyle.

With everything Baby Doll has given to me, I immediately understood that the well being of the woman I love and cherish, the family we work so hard for, everthing is my decision.   I fully accept this responsibility (and not because now if I catch my wife "in the right light" while ... say doing dishes, I can bend her over in front of the sink and have my way with her), it is because my Baby Doll now feels 100% safe now.  It is because we do not argue any more.  It is because Baby Doll and I have never been closer.  It is because Baby Doll and I are now able to constructively work though issues or disagreements.  The best part is this intense love we feel for eachother;  an intense desire to be with eachother,  an intense desire each of us have to take care of the other.

It is a new, much more powerful commitment than marriage.  It is a new chapter in our lives.  This blog I have created is to balance the blog Baby Doll (northvt.blogspot.com) started, Daddy and Me.  It is to document this exciting and unexpected time in our lives.  It is to maybe help others to consider the love, joy and benefits of the path Baby Doll and I have begun, the path some call domestic discipline, but I consider the greatest gift I could ever ask for.