Sunday, February 23, 2014

Learning Day 3.2

Yesterday turned out to be a great day with Baby Doll.  Ok ... so after 3.1 post Daddy changed Baby Doll several more times with the gentel cleaning of my pussy, and much more sampling of Daddy's favorite Dessert .... my pussy tastes so good -- proud of Baby Doll for taking such good care of her Daddy's pussy.  Then we headed to bed after dozing off on the couch.  Baby Doll then proceeded to put her Daddy to sleep with a BJ that would win an Emey award in the porn industry.

Baby Doll woke up extreamly early on Sat (like 4am early) and went down stairs.  About 7am Baby Doll came up and cuddled next to Daddy.  The next think I know, I am having amazing sex ... whoa ... Baby Doll is fired up .... going to be a great day.

We went down and Baby Doll made us tea and we chillaxed for a while ... mostly waiting for our oldest to wake up.  All along I hesitated on changing Baby Doll, I wanted her to feel uncomfortable and embarrassed ... as she should feel when saying no to her Daddy, but when I did change her, I talk about learning day, asking her why we are having a learning day, and make sure Baby Doll understands why we are having this Learning Day.   The I would bring her to Daddys side of the bed and sting her arse just a little with the paddle.  I was looking a these little spankings as a warning flare of what is to come later ... kind of getting her "warmed" up.

After the oldest left with his dad, Daddy decided that we go for a ride.  We packed up the little one, and Daddy freshly diapered Baby Doll.   We drove for about and hour, then we picked up some fast food ( which is a kind of treat where we live ... we did drive an hour ... hehe).

On our way back, Daddy sent Baby Doll into the store to get a beverage for later.  Her diaper was pretty full, and Baby Doll blushed and quietly said Daddy.   I smiled and told her to go get the beverage.   She knew not to argue ... 1 little one was in the back, and 2 it was learning day.  This is hard for Baby Doll, it is embarrassing especially with these plastic diaper ... they make a lot of noise.

Once we got home, we ate so food and drank some beverages.   Soon, I sent Baby Doll to the shower and brought down her Baby Doll Dress new Baby Doll socks, her hair bow and pacifier.

After Baby Doll was dressed, I sent her up stairs to assume the position, over the 3 pillows Daddy placed in the middle of the bed.  Then I hopped in the shower.  While Baby Doll was waiting, she stared at the wooden paddle that she was about to get spanked with.

Went I came up, I let baby doll know that she has been a very good girl today, but today was also a learning day.   This spanking is to reinforce never saying no to Daddy.   I started with a gentle but stinging paddle of both cheeks, followed by a serier of center spankings.

Then I went over to Baby Doll and kissed her and talked about learning day and how much I love her.

Then I went back and took her temp ... giving her arse a break.  Once the temp was taken, she was paddled good ... probably about 20 good spanks per cheek with a finish of 10 centered ones.  Then got Baby doll work up.  I again, went talk talked with her ... more this time to see how she was holding up ... and she was fine.

This time I placed a glove on and lubed up my fingers.   I slowly slipped them into her anus, and gently worked on streching her anus ... she has a new toy Daddy wants to get in there.  After getting my fingers in as far as they would go and streched for a while, I removed my fingers.  Her arse was getting lube on her cheeks.

Time for the final spanking ... I was more firm and the spankings we longer.  Baby Doll started flailing so I had to hold her down.  The lube making the paddle stick to her arse.  Then the spankings were over.

Daddy comforted Baby Doll and diaperes her.  We went down stairs ... and enjoyed the rest of the evening together until we fell asleep on the couch ... lucky of Baby Doll as she got out of the evening spanking.
















Well we are going to have a few drinks and some snacks. Then Baby Doll will take a shower and there will be an immediate inspection. Then I will take her to the bedroom and brighten up her *** ... then diaper her and back to drinks.


All along after the shower Baby Doll will be in the Baby Doll Dress Daddy bought her .... with a lot of dipping in the honey along the way.

Friday, February 21, 2014

Learning Day 3.1

Ok so here we go

Wait ... Baby Doll just let go in her diaper ... what a good girl ... how sexy she sounds.

Where was I, oh .. not very far.   I came home with the kids with good news to bear; Baby Doll had a drink pour, and was in her "kids around" Baby Doll attire, pullups and all.  Why not ... learning day has begun.  We had our drinks.

I took her up stairs, it was time for big diapers to come on.  Pulled off the pullups and wiped my inviting pussy clean.  After cleaning everywhere,  I took Baby Doll's temperature ... it takes 2 minutes to read, so I helped myself to Daddy's favorite Dessert.  After some time, I checked the thermometer had Baby Doll's again, had a temp ... Daddy will keep an eye on this.   I cleaned Baby Doll and diapered her.

Haha .. then I had to see what kind of padding a dry diaper had ... Daddy bent Baby Doll over and playfully spanked her with the paddle ... don't think there was much there ... for either of us.

Anywho, back to the family ... hopefully another change before FMN....

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Learning Day 3

Last night, I fell asleep before I could administer Baby Dolls's sets for the day.  I told Baby Doll that Daddy would be more strick with rule #3, Baby Doll cannot say no to Daddy.

So in lue of starting today with the 20 sets, Baby Doll, here is your punishment....

1. Call you Mom and get us a kid free weekend so we can have this learning day.

2. I want you to write on your blog with the title:

Rule #3 assignment.

I want a paragraph telling why this rule is important to our relationship, then write 100 times...

I will never, for any reason, say NO to my Daddy.



I love you Baby Doll .... and dont forget to ask to go potty today!!!

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Daddy's Favorite Part of being Daddy

Today was a rough day for Baby Doll and me.   With the added stresses we are going through, it came to a little bit of of a boil.  Baby Doll woke up upset.  Daddy tried to comfort her, but as the morning wore on Baby Doll's frame of mind was affecting her attitude, and Daddy became annoyed,  instead of continuing to comfort Baby Doll, Daddy became upset with her attitude and the spanking that ensued was strong.  Daddy is sorry if I over reacted.

So, throughout the day we talked through what happened, and we are figuring out how to deal with these intense emotions during a bad day.  All things considered,  this is only the 2nd time we have come close to a fight since my greatest gift ever.

Ok ok ok ... so what is my favorite part of being Daddy ... well it happened when I came home from work.  After our tumultuous morning, talking through this morning's issue (see Baby Doll's blog for her thoughts on this morning), the stress that we are under right now ... When I got home my Baby Doll and i were exhausted.   I poured us a drink, and we sat for a moment.   I looked over to her and my heart sank.

"You want to get changed into my Baby Doll clothes?"

"Yes Daddy," Baby Doll said.

SWEET!!! -- ok here is my favorite part of being Daddy ...


So I took her to the bathroom and turned the shower on; then I slowly undressed her.  I helped her into the shower.  I then went and picked out a set Baby Doll's "Baby Doll's" cloths ... hair bow and pacifier included ... actually the rest is a long nightgown  and socks ... my Baby Doll does not need much cloths for me.

I wanted Baby Doll to have a long shower ... to relax and warm up.  I brought her drink to her and checked on her often.  There is not much better than those warm, wet kisses.

When she was done, I dried Baby Doll and dressed her.  Then I combed her hair, and Baby Doll was Baby Doll.   Now everything was back to normal.

In summary,  take care of and nurture my Baby Doll is my favorite part of being Daddy!!!   I love taking care of Baby Doll.  I love showing her how tender Daddy can be to her.  I love being Baby Doll's Daddy!








Sunday, February 9, 2014

Learning Day Take 2

Aghhh ... so learning Day #2 did not work as well as I thought.  I will blame it on two things:

1.  Professional world was a spinning and Daddy's head was not as focused on Baby Doll as I should have been.
2.  Baby Doll is going through some Jersey Girl rebellion.  I feel this is necessary to get through, but it requires constant Daddy attention and usually a very sore behind for Baby Doll.  After Learning Day 2, Baby Doll continued to tell Daddy what to do.  One time she even Told Daddy she was going potty ... this was in public with friends, I corrected her immediately -- not even thinking about or noticing our friends (Baby Doll noticed though).

I found that it was time to continue Learning Day immediately.  I am off from Friday night through Monday.  Baby Doll will and is getting all the attention that she needs.  If Baby Doll needs another Learning Day for this topic, she will not enjoy -- it will be a very long day for her -- fair warning Baby Doll!!!

We had friends over Friday night for some cards.  I whispered into Baby Doll ear that once everyone is gone, Learning Day begins and she would be Diapered.  Baby Doll asked why?  Because I need to remind you that you are my Baby Doll.  You have been acting like a Big Girl lately and you need to remember that Daddy makes the decisions.

Finally after a few friends crashing and a much needed breakfast out, we were home and getting little one setup down stairs.  Once everything was set, I made Baby Doll shower to clean herself for Daddy -- this of course means a thorough shaving from the neck down.  Baby Doll asked me to get her clothing, but I did not think it necessary.  I waited by the fire and when Baby Doll was done she came in Naked a cold.  I smiled -- Daddy loves looking at this specimen of absolute beauty; and with her Daddy looking at her and the beginning of her punishment imminent, Daddy also love how vulnerable she looked.  I makes Daddy's heart melt --

anyways -- after a moment of soaking in all of Baby Doll I got up and went over to her and kiss her neck and shoulders.  Then I inspect her cleanliness.  I run my hands gently down from her hair, to her  check down the neck and across her wonderful breasts; I come up under her arms and run my hand for her rib cage up across her arm pits to her hand (which are now in the air) and back down again.  This makes sure that Baby Doll did not skip or forget to shave her arm pits.  From there I run my hand slowly down the out side of her hips, down her thighs and calves, always moving slowly, always looking for the stray stubble.  Once I reach the ankles, I come around the inside and bring my hand every slower and ever more thorough up Baby Doll's calves and into her thighs (now Baby Doll is soft -- like softest fine fleece available soft -- not kidding -- but the inside of her thighs -- OMG -- yeah -- that is the softest most delicate part of Baby Doll's skin).  Then Daddy inspects Baby's Doll's shaving around her Daddy's pussy, MY PUSSY!!!  I pull out all the skin and touch very delicately until I am satisfied.  Then the last part of my inspection is to make sure my pussy tastes as clean and fresh.  There is nothing Daddy enjoys to have in his mouth more that Baby Doll's shaven pussy.  I absolutely love it!!!  Baby Doll did an outstanding job and passed inspection.

After inspection, and we went to the bedroom and I put on Baby Doll's onesy and nightgown to warm her up; then I took Baby Doll's temperature to make sure she was able to have Daddy's punishment.  I don't think Baby Doll likes Daddy using the animal anal thermometer -- but oh well ... he he.  She had a slight temp, but Daddy decided to monitor her temp and continue on with the punishment.  Baby then went to Daddy's side of the bed and was instructed to lay over the pillows in the middle of the bed with her ass high.  Daddy grabbed his new 36" wooden paddle and slid it down her ass to between her legs and tapped them, signaling Baby Doll to spear her legs.  I gently rubbed the lips of Daddy's pussy, feeling them fill with moisture.  I gave her a few good slaps with my hand and explained to why she was getting spanked and if she (1) understood why, and (2) if she accepts the punishment she is about to receive.  Once she agreed to both, I gave her twenty quick slaps with the paddle dead center on her arse.  She squirmed around -- bad idea.

See my theory is that I will start out a punishment with a set amount in mind.  The determination of the severity depends a lot on how Baby Doll has behaved since she learned about the forthcoming punishment and how she behaves during the punishment.  The worse Baby Doll behaves or the worse Baby squirms during the punishment will (1) increase the intensity of the spankings and (2) increase the amount of spankings or other forms of punishments.

Sooo .... Baby Doll had built up a good amount due to it Being a Learning Day especially because we had to revisit this topic, the way she acted with company, and she had a hard time at first with the paddle and squirmed all over.

I love the way Baby Doll explains it on her blog, www.northvt.blogspot.com

Back to Baby Doll's punishment ... so I went over and calmed her down and then put some Ben Gay inside her arse -- not a very big dose, and not very deep -- just enough to light her off for a little.  Then she received a handful of paddles and we went back down stairs.

This morning, Baby Doll received one of the hardest spanking she Daddy has ever given her.  It started out with a warm up few hand slaps and then 30 with, the let call it "Big Wood" (36" wooden paddle) for now, 10 on each check and 10 dead center.  Is got Baby Doll all worked up.  I talked with her about how brave she is and why she was receiving the spankings.  Then I brought up the two times Baby Doll did not ask to go potty.  Baby Doll received 90 with the Paddle for that; 30 for each check -- then 30 for the center for how she acted at the restaurant.  This pushed Baby Doll very far,  she squirmed all over, but this never helps her, it makes it worse.  Once the punishment was over for the not asking to go potty,
Daddy again went over to calm Baby Doll Down letting her know what a good girl she is and the this is a Big Girl Punishment for acting like a Big Girl.  Once she had began to compose herself, Daddy told her her punishment was almost over -- this was upsetting to Baby Doll as she began to whimper again.  I reassured her and decided to give her a little longer break with the paddle.  I grabbed the lotion and rubbed a bunch into to her ass checks.  Baby Doll arse has been taking a lot of punishments and has become a little dry.  After Daddy rubbed in the lotion, I grabbed the Ben Gay and inserted in her rectum and spun my finger around.  This set her off again ... in a whole new way.  Then I grabbed the paddle and gave Baby Doll 100 quick, fast paddles dead center.  By the time this was over, Baby Doll was a mess -- Daddy pushed her farther than I have ever done.  I knew this and took extra attention to Baby Doll after the punishment.  I held and rocked her, told how much I love her and discussed by she was punished and why this Learning Day was important.

We are now relaxing before we head out to a very public event for many hours.  Baby Doll will be diapered, and not allowed to pee outside of her diaper.  She will be wear the adult pull-up type while out of the house.  I will also have the Ben Gay with Daddy.  She will be punished for any rules Baby Doll breaks.  I love Baby Doll... she is strong, smart, sexy, loving, and all mine.  I know baby doll is trying hard to fully obey her Daddy; this is a big lifestyle change.  These learning days are designed to help Baby Doll fully submit to her Daddy!!!



Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Daddy's Big 5

OK... OK ... OK

Well I have had about enough of my Baby Dolls Jersey Girl attitude.  We just completed a Learning Day, and Baby Doll seems to be pushing ever harder.  Baby Doll even tried to slap Daddy this evening .... whoooa ... Immediate corner time followed by a silent spanking with a few hard slaps dead center.

So, I want to place it out for Baby Doll to always reference.  This is an updated and for now the permanent 5 rules ... Daddy's Big 5!!!  Daddy will always be able to add some more temporary rules to help Baby Doll along ... like no swearing -- which I consider a part of Baby Doll is to take care of herself.  


Daddy's Big 5!!!

1.  Always Respect Daddy
2.  Baby Doll will Obey Daddy and never Tell Daddy What we are or are Not going to do
3.  Never Say No to Daddy
4.  Baby Doll is to take Care of herself -- including keeping herself bare for Daddy
5.  Always ask Daddy to go Potty


Tonight will end with some firm spankings for Baby Doll's disrespect of her Daddy today.  Baby Doll was right in her blog post that I have not been paying as much attention to her as I should have.  Baby Doll has my attention now.... Please, please, please Baby Doll, for your own sake -- follow Daddy's Big 5 .... Love You!!!! 

Monday, February 3, 2014

Learning Day #2

Well, Well,

Baby Doll has been feeling that Daddy has not been as attentive as Daddy should be ... and she is right.  Our worlds are spinning right now -- professional (keep fingers crossed) -- and my attention has been elsewhere.  For this, Baby Doll, I am sorry.

So ....

Baby Doll has been pushing her limits with this reprieve for her wonderful ass.   So we are embarking on our 2nd learning day.  Baby Doll has been pushing hard by telling Daddy what me or we are and are not going to do.  This can not happen ... Baby Doll gave me the final decisions on everything.  This is necessary so that there are no more arguments ... Daddy will make, stand by and take responsibility for all decisions.  Mind you, I search out Baby Doll's opinion in everything we do, her advise, knowledge and opinion are invaluable to me and the decisions I make.  So this learning day is about how Daddy is the decision maker how Baby Doll needs to learn not to Daddy what we are and are not going to do ... plus Daddy will get to try out my new spanking implement ...

36" Wooden Paddle -- Hardwood -- something you might see in an industrial kitchen -- hehe.  It arrived this week, and it has been left out in plain sight for Baby Doll to see.


So, Baby Doll is now learning.  Here is how she has learned so far:

We started with a lecture and a very firm spanking with my hand -- 20 sets!!!  This made her arse a crimson red ... it was so beautiful ... rivaling the best of sunsets.  mmm I love ever inch of Baby Doll .... mmmm!!!  When the spankings were over, I held Baby Doll close and let her know how much I love her, and how much Baby means to her Daddy.

Oh ... wait .. I also began to experiment more with the silent spanking aka ben gay inside the anus, so far it has been to much for Baby Doll in public or with friends.  My intent is to learn where her limit is to be able to have a silent spanking done ... say in the bathroom ... and rejoin a group of friends and be able to just compose herself.  So far this weekend, I have learned a lot.

Baby Doll has had an attitude lately, especially after punishments.  It is like she is still fighting Daddy.  So when that attitude bared it's head shortly after her opening punishment, needless to say Baby Doll was back up stairs and this time Daddy tested out his new paddle.  Because of the recent spanking, and that it was the first time Baby Doll would be spanked by anything like this, and by the fact that the anticipation of the past several days (remember the paddle had been hanging around the house!!!) she received 10 soft paddles.  This also allowed me to figure out how to best use the paddle ... it did not take long ;)

We have had several spankings thus far .. one immediate one was when Baby Doll finally admitted that she had lied to me last night.  I was pretty sure something was bothering her, and she would not tell me because she did not want to disappoint me.  Baby Doll told me this afternoon, and this immediately had her hands on the counter and night gown above the waist. Baby Doll can not ever lie to Daddy no matter what ... even though I was enjoying fucking my wife, I was taking a long time and I noticed she had stopped enjoying it.  Instead of letting Daddy know, she would have let Daddy go on ....  Baby Doll needs to remember my sole purpose in life is to love and protect her, and cherish her.  When she is not honest with me, that diminishes my ability to fulfill my purpose.

With one last lesson this evening, this learning day is a part one.  Baby Doll has a lot to learn.  Her Daddy has promised to teach her the way.  This will take Baby Doll a lot of work ... seeings how she is my Born and Bread Jersey Baby Doll.  I feel we did not fully learn the lesson of Daddy Makes All the Decisions and will revisit this lesson again soon.

Tonight we will finish in bedroom from cuddles to over my knee to back to cuddle and then some ... well ...  Oh , and let me tell all of you ... Baby Doll takes her punishment like a CHAMP!!!  I did bring Baby Doll pretty far with the paddle, but she takes it ... yes there are tears, and some times a little fight, but she is one tough girl, and Baby Doll makes her Daddy very Proud!!!

I belove you Baby Doll !!!


























Wednesday, January 22, 2014

HoH

I love this new lifestyle ... I am crazy for Baby Doll ... ha we are no longer vanilla!!!

I take my new responsibilities extreamly seriously.  Daddy, the final decision maker, the protector,  the provider,  the one person that makes Baby Doll truley happy, the one person she has entrusted everthing too.  This is all I want to live for.  Unfortunately,  our in world we need to make money to survive ... so work takes my focus off Baby Doll ... and that is no good, especially when work is not going well. (working on plan to keep Baby Doll in my focus more ... fingers crossed).

I have been grumpy latley.  I hate being grumpy around Baby Doll.   That is not what she needs from me.  There are times I feel I have not filled these shoes ... there is a learning curve for this daddy ... mostly how to juggle these strong emotions to make the world perfect for Baby Doll with the reality that our world is not perfect.   It is hard for me to explain yet, but the best way is:

When Baby Doll is not smiling and generally not happy, I feel as though I have failed, I feel drained , I feel I need to find a fix for her now ... even if there is not a fix.

When Baby Doll is smiling and Bubbly,  I feel confident,  I feel energized,  I feel like nothing can stop Baby Doll and me.

I love you Baby Doll .... change is on the way  ... I promise .... then I will be able to punish you anytime!!!


Sunday, January 19, 2014

Sets

In mine and Baby Doll's blog we have mentioned "sets"in relation to punishment and spankings. Sooo.... I figured I would explain sets.

I came up with Sets pretty fast after I received the Greatest gift ever.  Living with Baby Doll and our 2 children, there are limits to when I can discipline her (FYI... we do not discipline our children with any sort of force or display our lifestyle to them).  There are also large parts of the day when we are apart ... work being the largest.  So, how was I to punish her when a rule was broken?

SETS!!!

If Baby Doll breaks a rule, Daddy, me, assigns a number of sets determined by what the infaction is and how blatantly Baby Doll broke the rule.

The first set is 1 spanking on each cheek.

2 sets is 2 spankings on each cheek ... one each cheek followed by one each cheek. Then back to first set.  So, set 2 has a total of 6 spankings -- 3 on each cheek.

3 sets is 3 spankings on each cheek ... totaling 6 spankings. Then back to 2 sets.  Set 3 then has ... 12.

And so on.  Now, Baby Doll, usually ends up between 10 sets and 16 sets.  There are times that she hits 20 sets.  So check this out...

10 sets:

20 (one spanking for each cheek)+18+16 14+12+10+8+6+4+2=

110 spankings ... 55 on each cheek!!!

Now when we hit 20.....

40+38+36+34+32+30+28+26+24+22+20+18+16+14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
420!!!

When we get this high, Baby Doll knows why we are this high, and understands and to some extent expects and is disappointed if Daddy does not correct her.  Baby Doll wants to know her Daddy cares enough to help make her a better woman.  She feels empty if Daddy is not paying attention,  and I cannot have that!!!



Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Love Blossoming at the Pace of the Big Bang

Baby Doll and I have become very very close since we started down this new path.  I feel like our love is blossoming at the pace of the Big Bang.  I hate being apart from her ... I think of Baby Doll non stop.  Today at work I was typing an email and Baby Doll drifted into my thoughts, I almost missed that I ended the email with I love you ... oops ... glad I caught that.

Work has been tough lately and all I look forward to is going home to be with my Baby Doll's Daddy.  Tonight was tough ... real tough for both of us.  With my anticipation of getting home, and the bad day Baby Doll had ... well it was tough.

With Baby Doll being short with me and the kids, and Daddy looking for some love, it turned from the blossoming Big Bang into a self perpetuating back hole.  We both feed off of eachother for good or worse.

Now, I am not saying that everything is wrong ... I still feel my love growing exponentially, it just seems with all this emotion, we have to be careful of these potential traps.  Daddy needs to learn how to better understand these emotions so I can steer us away from any black holes.

The other issue I have is that now we are on this path of domestic discipline,  I find myself feeling like I am failing as her Daddy when she is not happy.  I know everyone cannot be happy all the time, but my Baby Doll deserves to be ... aghhh...

Any way, at one point, Baby Doll snapped at me in such a way, or just enough times at Daddy, that I had to quickly bend her over the couch arm and give her 10 firm spankings ... followed by a big hug.... of course.   This settled things down.  Shortly after Baby Doll went to bed.  I checked on her a little later, made sure she was properly tucked in,  pacifier and all.

Soon Daddy will head to bed.  There will be some lov'n, and some spankings -- for both swearing, back talking and not respecting Daddy -- and more lov'n!!!

Any who ... that is where Daddy's head is tonight.

BeLove you Baby Doll ... and you better not forget that!!!









Sunday, January 12, 2014

Yes, Baby Doll, Learning Days

In Baby Doll's blog post,  "Forms of Discipline," I had asked her to write about the "learing experience" she experienced that evening.  She did a very good job explaining the evening ... from Baby Doll's perspective.  

Now some of Daddy's notes on the Learning Day. 

Learning Day???  Well this was the inaugural Learning Day.  Learning Day is all or at least a good chunck of a day dedicated to helping Baby Doll with rules and attitudes that are difficult for her to learn. 

In my current thinking, ever time we need to have a learning day there will be similar themes throughout the day, but each day will have special thought put into it; the day's activities will center around an issue Baby Doll is having.  The first lesson is the problem Baby Doll is having asking Daddy to potty.
(Ok, ok, ok .... grown woman asking her husband to potty.  YEP!!!  -- I touched on this in an earlier post,  and will expand on that post another time).

I put a lot of thought in how to prepare.  There must be anticipation for Baby Doll.  There must be an understanding of what we are learning and why we are needing this Learning Day.  There must be time for Baby Doll to be scared.    There must be punishment -- because we are here because Baby Doll is not been following a specific rule and spankings have not helped her to remember.  There must be time to Love and Cherish my Baby Doll.

Anticipation:

I had Baby Doll's cell phone, and left her a message on it.  Later, when she was unsuspecting and relaxed, I handed her the phone and told her see had a message.  The message instructed her to get right up right now and take am shower.   Baby Doll was instructed to ensure she was bare for Daddy.  Once she was finished, she was to put on her night gown and sox and meet Daddy in the bedroom.  Baby Doll was a perfect little girl with these directions.

The purpose of the message was to announce we were having a learning day and to quickly build some anticipation for the day. By telling Baby Doll that Daddy will be upstairs hopefully put a twinge of scare in her.

During the shower, Daddy was running around setting the day. I was so excited both sexual, but also for the opportunity to use this day to bring Baby Doll and I closer together -- and boy it did.

The Lesson:

When Baby Doll came into the bedroom, I was sitting on a tall stool; I told her she was not to speak unless spoken to; I told her she must say Daddy before she speaks.  I asked her to lift her night gown so Daddy can inspect how bare she was -- And Baby Doll was nice and bare.  Then we went over how she was not following the potty rule.  We talked about how it was the first rule, and how spankings have not helped Baby Doll improve much.  I explained that she is my Baby Doll and will be wearing a diaper for the rest of the day.

Oh yah .... sitting on the bed next to Baby Doll is laid out all the implements Daddy is planning on using; items like a thermometer,  lubricant, anal plug and beads, diapers, Ben Gay and the such.  I placed these items out so Baby Doll's head would begin spinning -- what does Daddy have in mind.  And boy did it work ... as I was lecturing her about why we were having Learning Day, her eyes kept looking at the bed with a concerned look.

Once we went over the reason why were having Learning Day, and how the day would go, I brought Baby Doll to the bed and bent her over a pillow so her sweet ass was in the air and her face was looking at the bed.  I moved all my implements under her nose, told her not to move and went to take a shower.  I was gone for about 15 minutes.  When I returned to the room, Baby Doll had not moved, but I could feel how nervous she had become.  Baby Doll telling Big Beautiful Brown Eyes were scared. Let us begin the day!!!

Punishment and Love:

We started with a firm spanking to redden the checks and put a little sting into the lesson -- Baby Doll is a champ at taking spankings, although this time she began to shed tears -- it breaks my heart to see Baby Doll upset, but I need to be her stong Daddy at this point.  I walked Baby Doll over to the other side of the bed where I set up a changing station.  Before I diapered Baby Doll, I took her tempature -- mmm... a little high .. we better keep an eye on it.  Once diapered, we went down stairs and had Baby Doll Cuddle up on me.  I feel it is very important for Daddy to show Baby Doll that she is loved and safe. Baby Doll is letting go of a lot of her independence, making her exposed, that is why Daddy needs to make sure she umderstands how much I love her.

Oh ... I forgot ... Daddy made Baby Doll pound water.  Baby Doll is expect to pee in her diaper.  She has never allowed herself to lose control like this -- well who has really???  I knew it would be hard to let "go" so to help things along, I filled her up.

The day continued with lots love with sprinklings of punishments.  Baby Doll explains them remainder of the day the best at this point (I have been working on this post slowly for days and it is time to move on)

I love my Baby Doll and will give more insight with my thoughts and development as her Daddy as they come along.













Saturday, January 11, 2014

Rules

Recently, my Baby Doll posted her rules.  Yep, I have rules ... bhahahaha; but seriously,  these rules are designed to help my Baby Doll respect her Daddy. Baby Doll is true NJ girl at heart and temperament.   This has been a challenge at times for Baby Doll to respect Daddy's newly given authority.

Have no misgivings,  my Baby Doll truly wants these rules, she wants to obey her Daddy, and expects to be punished when these rules are broken.  She understands that I am the judge of when rules are broken, I determine the proper punishment for the broken rule, and I execute the punish for the broken rule.

The 1st rule I set was:

Baby Doll must ask me to go potty.

Wow ... that seems controling?  Well, no.  It is designed to make her think about her Daddy and the commitment she gave to me.  It is also designed to humble my NJ girl Baby Doll with a touch of humiliation.  Baby Doll has received many, many reddened ass for not obeying this rule.

The 2nd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must be shaven below the neck.

To be honest, I am not sure where this rule came from, I never had a problem with hair on women ... it happens, especially in the winter.  But I have enjoyed this rule.  Baby Doll has the softest skin in the world, and I get to enjoy it all of forever!

The 3rd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must Respect Daddy at all times.

Well, this is the backbone of the lifestyle Baby Doll and I chosen.  Without respecting Daddy, everything falls apart.


The 4th rule I set was:

Baby Doll can never say No to Daddy.

To say the least,  this is an extremely tough rule for Baby Doll.  By all mean, this does not mean Baby Doll can't disagree with me, it just means she is not allowed to use the word No when she disagees with me.  I designed this rule to help Baby Doll learn to respect daddy.


Well, it is late.  Baby Doll fell asleep waiting for me to execute todays punishment for the rules she broke:

3 times no ask for potty
3 blatant disrespect for daddy
1 for not shaving
And a couple extra for not playing with her favorite toy.

With that list ... 16 set, here we come ... wakie, wakie!!!



Friday, January 10, 2014

The Best Gift My Baby Doll has Ever Given


Lets start out with a little history.  My Baby Doll, who just got on to the internet 3 years ago, and fights the advancement of technology, shows me a blog she started when I arrived at home!! Wow ... blog ... I have not even played much myself in the blogosphere.  What drove her to the internet:
Ten years ago, I had just started dating my wife, Baby Doll.  We have been married for about six years,  and have two great children.  Baby Doll is a beautiful,  sexy, smart and self confident woman.
Just after Thanksgiving,  we were watching a little tv;  all of a sudden, she leaned over to me and gives me the greatest gift I have ever received or will will ever receive.   She gave me herself.  What ... Baby Doll fully submitted to me;  and I knew what she meant immediately.   Also, immediately, I felt a great warmth of love, honor and responsibility flow over me.  It was awsome!!!
Ok, so what does this mean?
It means, I am in charge... yep Daddy; Head of Household ... in every aspect of life.  Final descisions on finacial matters, family matters, sex, everything.  I can set rules and expect her to listen and obey theses rules.  I can punish her when these rules are not followed.
Whoa whoa whoa ... I am punishing, with spankings, my Baby Doll.  Well, yes!!  Baby Doll and I have always had a strong sex life, we like to play and we like to play hard.  Our previous ten years together had led us to this point.  It was not a big leap for Baby Doll and me.  Now it is not play, it is part of our life, our lifestyle.
With everything Baby Doll has given to me, I immediately understood that the well being of the woman I love and cherish, the family we work so hard for, everthing is my decision.   I fully accept this responsibility (and not because now if I catch my wife "in the right light" while ... say doing dishes, I can bend her over in front of the sink and have my way with her), it is because my Baby Doll now feels 100% safe now.  It is because we do not argue any more.  It is because Baby Doll and I have never been closer.  It is because Baby Doll and I are now able to constructively work though issues or disagreements.  The best part is this intense love we feel for eachother;  an intense desire to be with eachother,  an intense desire each of us have to take care of the other.
It is a new, much more powerful commitment than marriage.  It is a new chapter in our lives.  This blog I have created is to balance the blog Baby Doll (northvt.blogspot.com) started, Daddy and Me.  It is to document this exciting and unexpected time in our lives.  It is to maybe help others to consider the love, joy and benefits of the path Baby Doll and I have begun, the path some call domestic discipline, but I consider the greatest gift I could ever ask for.