In mine and Baby Doll's blog we have mentioned "sets"in relation to punishment and spankings. Sooo.... I figured I would explain sets.
I came up with Sets pretty fast after I received the Greatest gift ever. Living with Baby Doll and our 2 children, there are limits to when I can discipline her (FYI... we do not discipline our children with any sort of force or display our lifestyle to them). There are also large parts of the day when we are apart ... work being the largest. So, how was I to punish her when a rule was broken?
SETS!!!
If Baby Doll breaks a rule, Daddy, me, assigns a number of sets determined by what the infaction is and how blatantly Baby Doll broke the rule.
The first set is 1 spanking on each cheek.
2 sets is 2 spankings on each cheek ... one each cheek followed by one each cheek. Then back to first set. So, set 2 has a total of 6 spankings -- 3 on each cheek.
3 sets is 3 spankings on each cheek ... totaling 6 spankings. Then back to 2 sets. Set 3 then has ... 12.
And so on. Now, Baby Doll, usually ends up between 10 sets and 16 sets. There are times that she hits 20 sets. So check this out...
10 sets:
20 (one spanking for each cheek)+18+16 14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
110 spankings ... 55 on each cheek!!!
Now when we hit 20.....
40+38+36+34+32+30+28+26+24+22+20+18+16+14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
420!!!
When we get this high, Baby Doll knows why we are this high, and understands and to some extent expects and is disappointed if Daddy does not correct her. Baby Doll wants to know her Daddy cares enough to help make her a better woman. She feels empty if Daddy is not paying attention, and I cannot have that!!!
I came up with Sets pretty fast after I received the Greatest gift ever. Living with Baby Doll and our 2 children, there are limits to when I can discipline her (FYI... we do not discipline our children with any sort of force or display our lifestyle to them). There are also large parts of the day when we are apart ... work being the largest. So, how was I to punish her when a rule was broken?
SETS!!!
If Baby Doll breaks a rule, Daddy, me, assigns a number of sets determined by what the infaction is and how blatantly Baby Doll broke the rule.
The first set is 1 spanking on each cheek.
2 sets is 2 spankings on each cheek ... one each cheek followed by one each cheek. Then back to first set. So, set 2 has a total of 6 spankings -- 3 on each cheek.
3 sets is 3 spankings on each cheek ... totaling 6 spankings. Then back to 2 sets. Set 3 then has ... 12.
And so on. Now, Baby Doll, usually ends up between 10 sets and 16 sets. There are times that she hits 20 sets. So check this out...
10 sets:
20 (one spanking for each cheek)+18+16 14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
110 spankings ... 55 on each cheek!!!
Now when we hit 20.....
40+38+36+34+32+30+28+26+24+22+20+18+16+14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
420!!!
When we get this high, Baby Doll knows why we are this high, and understands and to some extent expects and is disappointed if Daddy does not correct her. Baby Doll wants to know her Daddy cares enough to help make her a better woman. She feels empty if Daddy is not paying attention, and I cannot have that!!!
I DO NOT enjoy the spankings...yet I fully understand the need for them, and to the extent that if my infractions were ignored, I WOULD feel neglected. Now, when Daddy doesn't call me out for cursing or being disrespectful, I am put out b/c I feel that it is not important enough for Daddy to pay attention. (As much as I hate to admit it!) I want my Daddy to put me in my place and punish me when I misbehave.
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