Daddy's Big 5

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Well I have had about enough of my Baby Dolls Jersey Girl attitude.  We just completed a Learning Day, and Baby Doll seems to be pushing ever harder.  Baby Doll even tried to slap Daddy this evening .... whoooa ... Immediate corner time followed by a silent spanking with a few hard slaps dead center.

So, I want to place it out for Baby Doll to always reference.  This is an updated and for now the permanent 5 rules ... Daddy's Big 5!!!  Daddy will always be able to add some more temporary rules to help Baby Doll along ... like no swearing -- which I consider a part of Baby Doll is to take care of herself.  


Daddy's Big 5!!!

1.  Always Respect Daddy
2.  Baby Doll will Obey Daddy and never Tell Daddy What we are or are Not going to do
3.  Never Say No to Daddy
4.  Baby Doll is to take Care of herself -- including keeping herself bare for Daddy
5.  Always ask Daddy to go Potty


Tonight will end with some firm spankings for Baby Doll's disrespect of her Daddy today.  Baby Doll was right in her blog post that I have not been paying as much attention to her as I should have.  Baby Doll has my attention now.... Please, please, please Baby Doll, for your own sake -- follow Daddy's Big 5 .... Love You!!!! 

Learning Day #2

Well, Well,

Baby Doll has been feeling that Daddy has not been as attentive as Daddy should be ... and she is right.  Our worlds are spinning right now -- professional (keep fingers crossed) -- and my attention has been elsewhere.  For this, Baby Doll, I am sorry.

So ....

Baby Doll has been pushing her limits with this reprieve for her wonderful ass.   So we are embarking on our 2nd learning day.  Baby Doll has been pushing hard by telling Daddy what me or we are and are not going to do.  This can not happen ... Baby Doll gave me the final decisions on everything.  This is necessary so that there are no more arguments ... Daddy will make, stand by and take responsibility for all decisions.  Mind you, I search out Baby Doll's opinion in everything we do, her advise, knowledge and opinion are invaluable to me and the decisions I make.  So this learning day is about how Daddy is the decision maker how Baby Doll needs to learn not to Daddy what we are and are not going to do ... plus Daddy will get to try out my new spanking implement ...

36" Wooden Paddle -- Hardwood -- something you might see in an industrial kitchen -- hehe.  It arrived this week, and it has been left out in plain sight for Baby Doll to see.


So, Baby Doll is now learning.  Here is how she has learned so far:

We started with a lecture and a very firm spanking with my hand -- 20 sets!!!  This made her arse a crimson red ... it was so beautiful ... rivaling the best of sunsets.  mmm I love ever inch of Baby Doll .... mmmm!!!  When the spankings were over, I held Baby Doll close and let her know how much I love her, and how much Baby means to her Daddy.

Oh ... wait .. I also began to experiment more with the silent spanking aka ben gay inside the anus, so far it has been to much for Baby Doll in public or with friends.  My intent is to learn where her limit is to be able to have a silent spanking done ... say in the bathroom ... and rejoin a group of friends and be able to just compose herself.  So far this weekend, I have learned a lot.

Baby Doll has had an attitude lately, especially after punishments.  It is like she is still fighting Daddy.  So when that attitude bared it's head shortly after her opening punishment, needless to say Baby Doll was back up stairs and this time Daddy tested out his new paddle.  Because of the recent spanking, and that it was the first time Baby Doll would be spanked by anything like this, and by the fact that the anticipation of the past several days (remember the paddle had been hanging around the house!!!) she received 10 soft paddles.  This also allowed me to figure out how to best use the paddle ... it did not take long ;)

We have had several spankings thus far .. one immediate one was when Baby Doll finally admitted that she had lied to me last night.  I was pretty sure something was bothering her, and she would not tell me because she did not want to disappoint me.  Baby Doll told me this afternoon, and this immediately had her hands on the counter and night gown above the waist. Baby Doll can not ever lie to Daddy no matter what ... even though I was enjoying fucking my wife, I was taking a long time and I noticed she had stopped enjoying it.  Instead of letting Daddy know, she would have let Daddy go on ....  Baby Doll needs to remember my sole purpose in life is to love and protect her, and cherish her.  When she is not honest with me, that diminishes my ability to fulfill my purpose.

With one last lesson this evening, this learning day is a part one.  Baby Doll has a lot to learn.  Her Daddy has promised to teach her the way.  This will take Baby Doll a lot of work ... seeings how she is my Born and Bread Jersey Baby Doll.  I feel we did not fully learn the lesson of Daddy Makes All the Decisions and will revisit this lesson again soon.

Tonight we will finish in bedroom from cuddles to over my knee to back to cuddle and then some ... well ...  Oh , and let me tell all of you ... Baby Doll takes her punishment like a CHAMP!!!  I did bring Baby Doll pretty far with the paddle, but she takes it ... yes there are tears, and some times a little fight, but she is one tough girl, and Baby Doll makes her Daddy very Proud!!!

I belove you Baby Doll !!!

HoH

I love this new lifestyle ... I am crazy for Baby Doll ... ha we are no longer vanilla!!!

I take my new responsibilities extreamly seriously.  Daddy, the final decision maker, the protector,  the provider,  the one person that makes Baby Doll truley happy, the one person she has entrusted everthing too.  This is all I want to live for.  Unfortunately,  our in world we need to make money to survive ... so work takes my focus off Baby Doll ... and that is no good, especially when work is not going well. (working on plan to keep Baby Doll in my focus more ... fingers crossed).

I have been grumpy latley.  I hate being grumpy around Baby Doll.   That is not what she needs from me.  There are times I feel I have not filled these shoes ... there is a learning curve for this daddy ... mostly how to juggle these strong emotions to make the world perfect for Baby Doll with the reality that our world is not perfect.   It is hard for me to explain yet, but the best way is:

When Baby Doll is not smiling and generally not happy, I feel as though I have failed, I feel drained , I feel I need to find a fix for her now ... even if there is not a fix.

When Baby Doll is smiling and Bubbly,  I feel confident,  I feel energized,  I feel like nothing can stop Baby Doll and me.

I love you Baby Doll .... change is on the way  ... I promise .... then I will be able to punish you anytime!!!

Sets

In mine and Baby Doll's blog we have mentioned "sets"in relation to punishment and spankings. Sooo.... I figured I would explain sets.

I came up with Sets pretty fast after I received the Greatest gift ever.  Living with Baby Doll and our 2 children, there are limits to when I can discipline her (FYI... we do not discipline our children with any sort of force or display our lifestyle to them).  There are also large parts of the day when we are apart ... work being the largest.  So, how was I to punish her when a rule was broken?

SETS!!!

If Baby Doll breaks a rule, Daddy, me, assigns a number of sets determined by what the infaction is and how blatantly Baby Doll broke the rule.

The first set is 1 spanking on each cheek.

2 sets is 2 spankings on each cheek ... one each cheek followed by one each cheek. Then back to first set.  So, set 2 has a total of 6 spankings -- 3 on each cheek.

3 sets is 3 spankings on each cheek ... totaling 6 spankings. Then back to 2 sets.  Set 3 then has ... 12.

And so on.  Now, Baby Doll, usually ends up between 10 sets and 16 sets.  There are times that she hits 20 sets.  So check this out...

10 sets:

20 (one spanking for each cheek)+18+16 14+12+10+8+6+4+2=

110 spankings ... 55 on each cheek!!!

Now when we hit 20.....

40+38+36+34+32+30+28+26+24+22+20+18+16+14+12+10+8+6+4+2=
420!!!

When we get this high, Baby Doll knows why we are this high, and understands and to some extent expects and is disappointed if Daddy does not correct her.  Baby Doll wants to know her Daddy cares enough to help make her a better woman.  She feels empty if Daddy is not paying attention,  and I cannot have that!!!

Rules

Recently, my Baby Doll posted her rules.  Yep, I have rules ... bhahahaha; but seriously,  these rules are designed to help my Baby Doll respect her Daddy. Baby Doll is true NJ girl at heart and temperament.   This has been a challenge at times for Baby Doll to respect Daddy's newly given authority.

Have no misgivings,  my Baby Doll truly wants these rules, she wants to obey her Daddy, and expects to be punished when these rules are broken.  She understands that I am the judge of when rules are broken, I determine the proper punishment for the broken rule, and I execute the punish for the broken rule.

The 1st rule I set was:

Baby Doll must ask me to go potty.

Wow ... that seems controling?  Well, no.  It is designed to make her think about her Daddy and the commitment she gave to me.  It is also designed to humble my NJ girl Baby Doll with a touch of humiliation.  Baby Doll has received many, many reddened ass for not obeying this rule.

The 2nd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must be shaven below the neck.

To be honest, I am not sure where this rule came from, I never had a problem with hair on women ... it happens, especially in the winter.  But I have enjoyed this rule.  Baby Doll has the softest skin in the world, and I get to enjoy it all of forever!

The 3rd rule I set was:

Baby Doll must Respect Daddy at all times.

Well, this is the backbone of the lifestyle Baby Doll and I chosen.  Without respecting Daddy, everything falls apart.


The 4th rule I set was:

Baby Doll can never say No to Daddy.

To say the least,  this is an extremely tough rule for Baby Doll.  By all mean, this does not mean Baby Doll can't disagree with me, it just means she is not allowed to use the word No when she disagees with me.  I designed this rule to help Baby Doll learn to respect daddy.


Well, it is late.  Baby Doll fell asleep waiting for me to execute todays punishment for the rules she broke:

3 times no ask for potty
3 blatant disrespect for daddy
1 for not shaving
And a couple extra for not playing with her favorite toy.

With that list ... 16 set, here we come ... wakie, wakie!!!