Learning Day 3

Last night, I fell asleep before I could administer Baby Dolls's sets for the day.  I told Baby Doll that Daddy would be more strick with rule #3, Baby Doll cannot say no to Daddy.

So in lue of starting today with the 20 sets, Baby Doll, here is your punishment....

1. Call you Mom and get us a kid free weekend so we can have this learning day.

2. I want you to write on your blog with the title:

Rule #3 assignment.

I want a paragraph telling why this rule is important to our relationship, then write 100 times...

I will never, for any reason, say NO to my Daddy.



I love you Baby Doll .... and dont forget to ask to go potty today!!!

Daddy's Big 5

OK... OK ... OK

Well I have had about enough of my Baby Dolls Jersey Girl attitude.  We just completed a Learning Day, and Baby Doll seems to be pushing ever harder.  Baby Doll even tried to slap Daddy this evening .... whoooa ... Immediate corner time followed by a silent spanking with a few hard slaps dead center.

So, I want to place it out for Baby Doll to always reference.  This is an updated and for now the permanent 5 rules ... Daddy's Big 5!!!  Daddy will always be able to add some more temporary rules to help Baby Doll along ... like no swearing -- which I consider a part of Baby Doll is to take care of herself.  


Daddy's Big 5!!!

1.  Always Respect Daddy
2.  Baby Doll will Obey Daddy and never Tell Daddy What we are or are Not going to do
3.  Never Say No to Daddy
4.  Baby Doll is to take Care of herself -- including keeping herself bare for Daddy
5.  Always ask Daddy to go Potty


Tonight will end with some firm spankings for Baby Doll's disrespect of her Daddy today.  Baby Doll was right in her blog post that I have not been paying as much attention to her as I should have.  Baby Doll has my attention now.... Please, please, please Baby Doll, for your own sake -- follow Daddy's Big 5 .... Love You!!!! 

Learning Day #2

Well, Well,

Baby Doll has been feeling that Daddy has not been as attentive as Daddy should be ... and she is right.  Our worlds are spinning right now -- professional (keep fingers crossed) -- and my attention has been elsewhere.  For this, Baby Doll, I am sorry.

So ....

Baby Doll has been pushing her limits with this reprieve for her wonderful ass.   So we are embarking on our 2nd learning day.  Baby Doll has been pushing hard by telling Daddy what me or we are and are not going to do.  This can not happen ... Baby Doll gave me the final decisions on everything.  This is necessary so that there are no more arguments ... Daddy will make, stand by and take responsibility for all decisions.  Mind you, I search out Baby Doll's opinion in everything we do, her advise, knowledge and opinion are invaluable to me and the decisions I make.  So this learning day is about how Daddy is the decision maker how Baby Doll needs to learn not to Daddy what we are and are not going to do ... plus Daddy will get to try out my new spanking implement ...

36" Wooden Paddle -- Hardwood -- something you might see in an industrial kitchen -- hehe.  It arrived this week, and it has been left out in plain sight for Baby Doll to see.


So, Baby Doll is now learning.  Here is how she has learned so far:

We started with a lecture and a very firm spanking with my hand -- 20 sets!!!  This made her arse a crimson red ... it was so beautiful ... rivaling the best of sunsets.  mmm I love ever inch of Baby Doll .... mmmm!!!  When the spankings were over, I held Baby Doll close and let her know how much I love her, and how much Baby means to her Daddy.

Oh ... wait .. I also began to experiment more with the silent spanking aka ben gay inside the anus, so far it has been to much for Baby Doll in public or with friends.  My intent is to learn where her limit is to be able to have a silent spanking done ... say in the bathroom ... and rejoin a group of friends and be able to just compose herself.  So far this weekend, I have learned a lot.

Baby Doll has had an attitude lately, especially after punishments.  It is like she is still fighting Daddy.  So when that attitude bared it's head shortly after her opening punishment, needless to say Baby Doll was back up stairs and this time Daddy tested out his new paddle.  Because of the recent spanking, and that it was the first time Baby Doll would be spanked by anything like this, and by the fact that the anticipation of the past several days (remember the paddle had been hanging around the house!!!) she received 10 soft paddles.  This also allowed me to figure out how to best use the paddle ... it did not take long ;)

We have had several spankings thus far .. one immediate one was when Baby Doll finally admitted that she had lied to me last night.  I was pretty sure something was bothering her, and she would not tell me because she did not want to disappoint me.  Baby Doll told me this afternoon, and this immediately had her hands on the counter and night gown above the waist. Baby Doll can not ever lie to Daddy no matter what ... even though I was enjoying fucking my wife, I was taking a long time and I noticed she had stopped enjoying it.  Instead of letting Daddy know, she would have let Daddy go on ....  Baby Doll needs to remember my sole purpose in life is to love and protect her, and cherish her.  When she is not honest with me, that diminishes my ability to fulfill my purpose.

With one last lesson this evening, this learning day is a part one.  Baby Doll has a lot to learn.  Her Daddy has promised to teach her the way.  This will take Baby Doll a lot of work ... seeings how she is my Born and Bread Jersey Baby Doll.  I feel we did not fully learn the lesson of Daddy Makes All the Decisions and will revisit this lesson again soon.

Tonight we will finish in bedroom from cuddles to over my knee to back to cuddle and then some ... well ...  Oh , and let me tell all of you ... Baby Doll takes her punishment like a CHAMP!!!  I did bring Baby Doll pretty far with the paddle, but she takes it ... yes there are tears, and some times a little fight, but she is one tough girl, and Baby Doll makes her Daddy very Proud!!!

I belove you Baby Doll !!!

The Best Gift My Baby Doll has Ever Given

Lets start out with a little history.  My Baby Doll, who just got on to the internet 3 years ago, and fights the advancement of technology, shows me a blog she started when I arrived at home!! Wow ... blog ... I have not even played much myself in the blogosphere.  What drove her to the internet:

Ten years ago, I had just started dating my wife, Baby Doll.  We have been married for about six years,  and have two great children.  Baby Doll is a beautiful,  sexy, smart and self confident woman.

Just after Thanksgiving,  we were watching a little tv;  all of a sudden, she leaned over to me and gives me the greatest gift I have ever received or will will ever receive.   She gave me herself.  What ... Baby Doll fully submitted to me;  and I knew what she meant immediately.   Also, immediately, I felt a great warmth of love, honor and responsibility flow over me.  It was awsome!!!

Ok, so what does this mean?

It means, I am in charge... yep Daddy; Head of Household ... in every aspect of life.  Final descisions on finacial matters, family matters, sex, everything.  I can set rules and expect her to listen and obey theses rules.  I can punish her when these rules are not followed.

Whoa whoa whoa ... I am punishing, with spankings, my Baby Doll.  Well, yes!!  Baby Doll and I have always had a strong sex life, we like to play and we like to play hard.  Our previous ten years together had led us to this point.  It was not a big leap for Baby Doll and me.  Now it is not play, it is part of our life, our lifestyle.

With everything Baby Doll has given to me, I immediately understood that the well being of the woman I love and cherish, the family we work so hard for, everthing is my decision.   I fully accept this responsibility (and not because now if I catch my wife "in the right light" while ... say doing dishes, I can bend her over in front of the sink and have my way with her), it is because my Baby Doll now feels 100% safe now.  It is because we do not argue any more.  It is because Baby Doll and I have never been closer.  It is because Baby Doll and I are now able to constructively work though issues or disagreements.  The best part is this intense love we feel for eachother;  an intense desire to be with eachother,  an intense desire each of us have to take care of the other.

It is a new, much more powerful commitment than marriage.  It is a new chapter in our lives.  This blog I have created is to balance the blog Baby Doll (northvt.blogspot.com) started, Daddy and Me.  It is to document this exciting and unexpected time in our lives.  It is to maybe help others to consider the love, joy and benefits of the path Baby Doll and I have begun, the path some call domestic discipline, but I consider the greatest gift I could ever ask for.